Show notes from Chris Angel Murphy and Allyship is a Verb Put yourself in the other person's shoes. This week, Kathy Houston (she/her) talks about Club LILLES and what it means for her to be a late in life lesbian. In this episode, you will learn 1. How lesbian TikTok has been a wonderful, informative resource. 2. Why her first girlfriend gave her “homework.” 3. What it feels like to live in the affirming bubble of St. Petersburg, Florida. 💜 Enjoyed this episode? Consider donating to keep the podcast going: https://anchor.fm/chris-angel-murphy/support 👕 Rock the official podcast merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/allyship-is-a-verb/ 🎧 Make sure you’re following wherever you listen to podcasts: https://pod.link/allyshipisaverb 🎙️ Connect with Kathy to learn more about + support her work: Website LinkedIn Facebook 💻 Sources and resources from this episode: Club LILLES | A social community and platform for women and non-binary people who identify as lesbian, bi-sexual, pansexual, or any sexuality that loves women. The word LILLES is an acronym for Late in life Lesbians but has been adapted since its creation. LILLES means people who love women who also are dedicated to a growth mindset and support others in the community. Queer Flower | TVTropes page on flowers and their meanings in the LGBTQ+ community In U.S., 10.2% of LGBT Adults Now Married to Same-Sex Spouse | GALLUP Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend | Wikipedia Girls In Wonderland Biden signs into law same-sex marriage bill, 10 years after his famous Sunday show answer on the issue | CNN Tennessee House passes bill targeting marriage equality | The Black Wall Street Times "Loofah code" at Florida's largest retirement community more about confused than enthused | Palm Beach Post