Let's talk about kinks. From discussing the historical perspective and societal shifts around kinks to diving deep into the non-sexual perks of being or dating a kinkster, this episode is all about demystifying and celebrating the kink community. Plus, the "Only Whispers" segment addresses real listener questions, providing thoughtful insights into navigating kinks in relationships. Highlights: Taylor Swift's Melbourne Takeover: A brief but lively discussion on the impact of Taylor Swift's concert in Melbourne and its connection to embracing one's true self. Kink 101: An exploration of what kinks are, their possible genetic links, and the shift from being considered a mental illness to a recognized aspect of human sexuality. Non-Sexual Perks of Dating a Kinkster: A rundown on why dating a kinkster can be an enriching experience beyond the bedroom, emphasizing openness, trust, and a zest for life. ONLY WHISPERS Listener Questions: Daniel and Garet tackle real listener queries, offering advice on vegan kink compromises, age honesty in dating, and interpreting signals from a gym crush. Navigating Kinks in Relationships: Insights into the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and being authentic with your partner about your desires. Featured Listener Questions: Vegan Dilemma: How to reconcile a partner's leather BDSM kink with a new vegan lifestyle. Age Authenticity in Dating: The importance of honesty about one's age on dating apps and combating ageism. Gym Crush Confusion: Deciphering mixed signals from a gym crush and the potential for heteroflexibility. Closing Thoughts: The episode wraps up with an empowering message on the importance of owning your authentic self and your kinks. Daniel and Garet encourage listeners to communicate openly about their desires, whether in a new encounter, a hookup, or a long-term relationship, highlighting that understanding and acceptance are key to fulfilling connections. ___ SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON Join our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here! What’s included: Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenes Community chats with Daniel and Garet Exclusive voting power on episode topics/guests Daniel and Garet's personal journal updates ___ SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and Garet Co-Hosts of Modern Gays https://www.moderngays.co