Dive into the myths surrounding the "bottom's diet" and the intersection of food, body image, and sexuality within the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts debunk misconceptions, emphasizing the importance of a balanced diet and self-care for intimate well-being. They explore the concept of "gay dinner," redefining it as a celebration of community, inclusivity, and self-love. The episode is a feast of insights, aiming to empower listeners to embrace their authentic selves and build a supportive community. The conversation touches on personal experiences and societal pressures around body image, particularly in the gay community. The hosts share their own journeys towards body positivity and discuss the impact of community expectations. They also explore the idea of "gay dinner" as a communal gathering, highlighting its potential to foster connections and uplift members of the LGBTQ+ community. The episode is not just a discussion but a call to action to reclaim and redefine relationships with food and body, fostering a sense of belonging and self-acceptance. Topics Covered: Debunking the Bottom’s Diet Myth Dr. Carlton’s insights on how food affects pleasure. The significance of feeling empowered and enjoying food. The role of preparation, communication, and education in intimate times. The impact of misinformation and the importance of body awareness. Chef Alex Hall and the Bottoms Banquet Reassociating healthy eating habits with pleasure. Body Image and Community Pressure Building Community through Gay Dinner The idea of hosting a monthly gay dinner to build and expand the community. ___ SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON Join our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here! What’s included: Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenes Community chats with Daniel and Garet Exclusive voting power on episode topics/guests Daniel and Garet's personal journal updates ___ SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and Garet Co-Hosts of Modern Gays https://www.moderngays.co