Daniel and Garet are joined by love and relationship expert Trevor Kuhn from Love Daddy Trev. Together, they address common questions facing single gay men, such as why they might still be single, how to find the right partner, and navigating the complexities of dating in close-knit gay communities. The discussion also touches on the impact of Pride events on finding love, the competitive nature of dating among gay men, and the importance of self-love and authenticity in relationships. Trevor shares practical advice for dating, from engaging meaningfully with others to managing expectations on dating apps. The episode concludes with encouragement to prioritize self-love and genuine connections during Pride and beyond. Chapters: 00:26 Friends vs. Dating in Close-Knit Communities 01:28 The Impact of Pride on Finding Love 03:09 Navigating Gay Social Settings 05:20 The Competitive Nature of Gay Dating 08:12 The Role of Attraction in Friendships and Dating 16:13 Tips for Using Dating Apps Effectively ___ SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON Join our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here! What’s included: Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenes Community chats with Daniel and Garet Exclusive voting power on episode topics/guests Daniel and Garet's personal journal updates ___ SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and Garet Co-Hosts of Modern Gays https://www.moderngays.co