Getting It Right This Time & Paying For Premium

Orna & Matthew Walters, founders of Love On Purpose, share the knowledge and insights from their new book, “Getting It Right This Time: Break Free From Your Hidden Blocks To Finding Lasting Love”. You’ll learn how you might be standing in your own way when it comes to love and what you can do to get yourself back on track. And our Dear Damona question this week is: I want to pay for Premium on one app? Should I choose Tinder, Bumble, or OKCupid? Grab a copy of “Getting It Right This Time: Break Free From Your Hidden Blocks To Finding Lasting Love” by visiting: https://www.loveonpurpose.com/getting-it-right-this-time/ Craving another soothing meditation, transformational tools, and a sense of community? For the first time ever, Damona is offering a one-day virtual retreat on February 1st. Enrollment is NOW OPEN for The Fairy Tale Therapy Online Retreat but spaces are limited. Get your ticket now at DamonaHoffman.com/retreat Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Guests Introduction (00:00:56) Background of the Guests (00:02:10) Discussion on Title Choice (00:03:22) Challenges in Dating (00:03:41) Dating in the Modern Era (00:04:25) Myth of Effortless Love (00:05:03) Conflict in Relationships (00:06:54) Understanding Triggers (00:09:25) Authenticity in Communication (00:11:56) Patterns in Relationships (00:12:33) Brain Science of Attraction (00:14:13) Personal Experiences with Love (00:15:17) The Impact of Past Trauma (00:15:50) Contrasting Upbringings (00:16:13) Subconscious Patterns in Relationships (00:17:23) Understanding Love Imprint (00:18:36) Evaluating Relationship Needs (00:20:01) Misinterpreting Feelings (00:20:56) Commitment Before Understanding (00:21:56) The Danger of Rushing Relationships (00:22:41) Tools for Self-Discovery (00:23:54) Visceral Responses to Love Imprints (00:25:15) Meaning in Past Experiences (00:26:10) Chemistry vs. Love Imprint (00:28:21) The Complexity of Love Imprints (00:29:16) Broadening Relationship Perspectives (00:30:34) Understanding Casual Alcoholism (00:31:16) Realizing Personal Responsibility (00:31:36) The Love Imprint Concept (00:32:30) Navigating Relationship Myths (00:33:36) Recognizing Relationship Intentions (00:34:39) The Fantasy of Being Chosen (00:35:36) Growth Through Relationships (00:37:11) Using Dating Apps Effectively (00:38:07) The Reality of Dating (00:39:36) The Importance of Clarity in Relationships (00:42:37) Manifestation in Relationships (00:45:40) Love Imprints and Relationship Dynamics (00:46:25) Self-Discovery in Relationships (00:47:56) Unpopular Opinions on Dating (00:48:28) Deal Breakers in Relationships (00:49:52) Optimizing Dating Profiles (00:55:00) Choosing the Right Dating App (00:59:33) Fairy Tale Therapy Retreat (01:00:44) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices