My Father Planned His Death. I Didn’t Stop Him.

Death, Sex & Money

One day on his morning Uber route, Jason Armstrong got an email from his father. The message: at 85, he'd decided to end his life by stopping eating and drinking. Jason's first reaction? This was the "ultimate act of narcissism." But over the next few months, as Jason witnessed his dad's careful preparations, his perspective shifted. In this episode, Jason talks to Anna about processing his father's choice - from panic attacks on morning walks to a poignant final night sharing tiny sips of favorite drinks, and opens up about grappling with love, tenderness, and what it means to honor a parent's wishes, even when they're hard to accept. Podcast production by Zoe Azulay Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Public.com Ad Disclosure: A Bond Account is a self-directed brokerage account with Public Investing, member FINRA/SIPC. Deposits into this account are used to purchase 10 investment-grade and high-yield bonds. As of 9/26/24, the average, annualized yield to worst (YTW) across the Bond Account is greater than 6%. A bond’s yield is a function of its market price, which can fluctuate; therefore, a bond’s YTW is not “locked in” until the bond is purchased, and your yield at time of purchase may be different from the yield shown here. The “locked in” YTW is not guaranteed; you may receive less than the YTW of the bonds in the Bond Account if you sell any of the bonds before maturity or if the issuer defaults on the bond. Public Investing charges a markup on each bond trade. See our Fee Schedule. Bond Accounts are not recommendations of individual bonds or default allocations. The bonds in the Bond Account have not been selected based on your needs or risk profile. See https://public.com/disclosures/bond-account to learn more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

00:00
50:25
00:00
.
Help
·
Privacy
·
Terms
​
  • avatar
    Apple Podcasts
  • avatar
    Spotify
  • avatar
    Overcast
  • avatar
    Castbox
  • avatar
    Pocket Casts
  • avatar
    Podcast Addict
  • avatar
    iHeartRadio
  • avatar
    Podbean
  • avatar
    Audible
  • avatar
    YouTube Music
  • avatar
    AntennaPod
  • avatar
    Podverse
  • avatar
    Podcast Republic
  • avatar
    Player FM
  • avatar
    Fountain
  • avatar
    Podcast Guru
  • avatar
    Pandora
  • avatar
    iVoox
  • avatar
    Downcast
  • avatar
    Deezer
  • avatar
    Podcast App
  • avatar
    Castamatic
  • avatar
    gPodder
  • avatar
    TuneIn Radio
  • avatar
    RSSRadio
  • avatar
    Castro
  • avatar
    LN Beats
  • avatar
    CurioCaster
  • avatar
    Goodpods
  • avatar
    Anytime Podcast Player
  • avatar
    TrueFans
  • avatar
    Podurama
  • avatar
    Moon FM
  • avatar
    Global Player
  • avatar
    Breez
  • avatar
    podStation
Help
·
Privacy
·
Terms
My Father Planned His Death. I Didn’t Stop Him.